An Excerpt from “Street Hassle”

A ripe pear sprays across the table when Daisy bites into it. She laughs in a dumb way when it gets in my eye, which makes me like her more because I know how smart she is, and because it gives me permission to go dumb myself. I imagine that we’ll leave the library later, and a movie will play in front of a couch that barely fits us both. Except I don’t speak Czech, and by that point, I will have forgotten how to read. The subtitled plot will then be lost on me before it even begins, since I’ll have spent all night wondering how I might be able to iron out this corkscrew inside me.

A heart-shaped hole in the clouds frames three-quarters of a moon, but the frame will muddle by the time we’ve inched close enough for her knee to touch mine. She’ll drape over me with her cheek tucked into the curve of my neck, coinciding with when the mistress pulls a hidden gun on her lover. Quiet will come when the last of the credits have rolled, and it will peel her away from me, giving her the chance to tell me it’s past her bedtime. I’ll drop dead with my face against her skirted thigh and look up, sidelong and smiling, hoping that my begging her to stay goes unnoticed. My clumsy kiss will rest at the top of her leg, she’ll widen her eyes and grin until it’s ugly, then my head will rumble around her lap as she kicks up an earthquake and settle only when my hair takes root around her fingers. Before we’re too tangled to part, she’ll say that this is where we stop. Our last words will be only our two aching goodnights.

In my stupor, there’s a story Klajd told me from when he was with his first wife, the one he once referred to as the ground he walked on. Maybe what he meant to say was that he worshipped the ground she walked on… In any case, whenever he mentioned her, I couldn’t shake the image of her as cocoon and him as the larva curled up inside her, squirming to get out.

When he was twenty-six, he went to a wedding without her. There was another woman there, and the night ended with the two of them sitting on a stoop behind a strip mall taco shop. When a hunchbacked dishwasher tossed out the trash at closing time, the woman took one last drag of the cigarette they’d been sharing before getting up to tear open the garbage bag with her chipped black fingernails (I asked Klajd if she also wore cherry red lipstick and wrote poetry about sex and dying, and he told me to go fuck myself). She waved Klajd over and told him to hold out his hands onto which she lay a tortilla stuffed with lukewarm pork. She squeezed a lime for him before biting into her own food. He watched her and imagined no life in which he’d find his wife serving him alleyway garbage; not once awake past her bedtime, alive to the hours when things just begin to happen. He savored the divide a moment could cut between yesterday and the rest of his life.

That story came from the driver’s side of a patrol car, from the inside of a uniform Klajd loved to wear. I wore the same one but loathed it, and so by the end of the story, I loathed him too and the type of cowardice it must take to steal time in so many ways––whether with handcuffs and a gun or with snare-set smiles––but then Daisy takes another bite of her pear, and its juice trickles down her wrist, dripping onto the pages of a Book of Mormon she reads because she’s curious. Lately I doubt that anyone has ever been brave.

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Marianne’s scolded me before about taking myself too seriously, so when I ask her if she thinks there’s such a thing as courage or if all acts of what’s-usually-called bravery are simply borne from absolute necessity, she pauses the TV and folds one leg under herself with a canted smile. I ask the question again, this time in a funny voice so she might take it seriously, bringing up Klajd for the first time since I retired from policework. 

There was a routine during the four years Klajd and I were partners. I’d begin: I get that everyone is different, but… and she’d give the benefit of the doubt: well, maybe that’s just what works for him… and I’d ultimately return to a conclusion that had been formed long before the question was even asked, which usually went something like: Klajd’s just an asshole and I’m going to drive very fast into oncoming traffic the next time I’m locked in a car with him, and she would respond: okay.

To say I didn’t deserve that kind of patience would make me a martyr; to say I didn’t then, but I do now implies that I’m reformed. To say that Marianne is simply a patient woman who loves me deeply is closer to what’s probably the truth. I’m always glad to find that she still has some patience left, even if her smile patronizes me as I once again tell the story about the first time I met Klajd.

The department had rounded the rookies into an overheated bungalow for a week of Advanced Officer Training, and Klajd, just days out of the academy, showed up to roll call even later than I had. A roomful of starched uniforms and clip-on ties turned to the door to tell him his nameplate was dangling sideways. As he fumbled toward the back of the room while trying to fix it straight, the sergeant demanded to know where Klajd thought he was going. 

“To sit down, sir…” He looked back down to his shirt.

“Would you quit fucking with your nameplate?” the sergeant said. “What’s your name, trainee?”

“I’m––”

“You wanna come up here and tell us since you seem to like the attention?” The other rookies stirred awake. They jeered Klajd up to the sergeant’s podium, though he didn’t seem to notice. 

“Good morning. My name––” 

“Seriously? Why don’t I just…” the sergeant said. He reached over to tweeze away the nameplate that Klajd was still fucking with. “Better?”

“Yes, sir. Thank you.”

He told us his name is Klajd, spelled K-L-A-J-D but pronounced Clyde, as in Bonnie and… He was a clerk at his uncle’s Cuban bakery until “a tax thing shut them down,” at which point Klajd put himself through the academy as a self-sponsor. His secondary dream had always been to be a cop, he said. The sergeant was sure to remind him of the common understanding of self-sponsoring as a sort of prostitution, in which the self-sponsored recruit graduates the academy then sticks their ass out for whichever department might have them, compared to the supposed dignity of being selected from a batch of preferred applicants whose respective departments would put them through training upon hire. Yes sir, Klajd said before telling the story of his first dream. 

He’d been a star pitcher in college, but dropped out after he was recruited by a scout for a minor league Dodgers team. He played a full season and there was even talk of him going Triple A, maybe even Major League, until he rolled down the side of Mount Baldie in his brother’s hatchback. I get the sense he would’ve gone on about his future as a pro and the injury that led him to his new and nobler calling, but the sergeant interrupted and told him to sit. The sergeant began to speak but stopped himself to toss Klajd his nameplate before he continued. One of the pins must’ve stuck Klajd when he caught it. He brought his thumb to his mouth and kissed away the blood.

He was surprised when Frida got home early that night. He was still in his workboots when he microwaved the dinner she’d left him in the fridge before her shift. When she went into the kitchen and said he looked so tall in them––so handsome even despite smelling like wet dog as she rubbed her palm against the back of his buzzcut pulling him closer still––there was an urge to smile that only reminded him of the wedding. 

Smiling always came easiest. It was his best bet in anything, thoughtless even when he had to fake it, so when he felt one escape him, he chased it with a fever. He asked Frida about her day, thanked her for leaving him dinner, then asked what sent her home early before forgetfully thanking her for dinner once more. He chewed each word like gristle until it went down and each time braced himself to ensure it didn’t come back up. He was sick by the time she said she didn’t want to talk about it, that she just wanted to take a shower and lie with him and watch a movie and he should join her because they hadn’t even had the chance yet to share a shower in their new home. It was the first time in their marriage he considered using the excuse.

He’d learned more in the academy about rumors of a bottomless well of imaginary overtime than he had about anything else. Granted, drill instructors only spoke of it indirectly, like a hex that can only be learned through practice under the closer guidance of whoever would train their recruits in the field—or, in Klajd’s case, from voices overheard from the next locker room aisle over during his first day of work. One officer warned another that they wouldn’t want to have another Trujillo situation on their hands, would they? 

Klajd found the sergeant taking his lunch in his office the same day he’d berated him. He interrupted to ask what it means to have a Trujillo situation on one’s hands. The sergeant paused his movie to keep himself from choking on his leftovers. He set down his dollar store reading glasses as he coughed and saw that Klajd was serious. There’d been a decade of trainees like him, so before Klajd had even spoken that morning, the sergeant had him pegged at a point between Toyota salesman and failed jock nagged into a real job by Someone Who Cares. The sound of Klajd’s voice, like that of a toddler wondering aloud an unanswerable question, made the sergeant reconsider. Another bit of food went down sideways. 

The joke Klajd told me he told the sergeant that day was something to the effect of “Try not to die, sir. We haven’t gotten to our Heimlich training yet.” The sergeant held back another fit as he laughed and shook his head, extending a hand to Klajd. Klajd smiled in return then was regaled with what the officer in the locker room had probably meant by “Trujillo situation.” Read: any time the husband or wife of any cop at this department since Trujillo calls the watch commander’s office to discover that there is in fact no midnight detail at Men’s Central Jail. That their spouse’s partner whom they’ve only ever referred to by their last name is actually named Yesenia. That when they have no clue where their favorite person in the world could possibly be at that moment, they’re forced to wonder whether it might feel better if that person was simply dead, so they show up at the station bleating away two late night bottles of wine to find out, leading to a write-up for the officer who, in getting caught in their lie, would be considered to have exhibited Conduct Unbecoming of an Officer.

The shower echoed from the master bathroom. Klajd wasn’t even going to use the excuse for the same reason most do; he’d never even touched the girl at the wedding aside from when their hands grazed one another as he walked her to her car and said goodnight, both of them standing there smiling until their faces cramped. Him, unable to stop smiling until he got to his hotel room and thought of the last time he was in Santa Barbara.

There was the karaoke Frida coaxed out of him by slackening his leash and feeding him an extra shot of tequila, and the tenderness of her voice after she’d had a couple of her own and said I love love love love you and he said I love you you you you too. Then the drunk drive to the beach where they would fall asleep in the sand and wake the next morning in a panic over how much money they didn’t have to waste on a hotel room. The panic, like the hundred thousand others they’d share in the years to follow, would become a punchline’s perfect setup with the years themselves always the punchline. 

Ba dum tss was the sound of a shampoo bottle bouncing off the wall and sliding across the shower floor. Frida said ‘ow’ the way she does any time she drops something, even when it doesn’t hurt. Klajd stood in the bathroom doorway and watched her rinse her hair. He made sure to tell her he got called into work before she could open her eyes.

call me ishmael

Without much evidence, I’m a believer in the God or cosmic energies that steer us toward the right books at the right times that we need them. Getting halfway through a long book at 19 years old hoping to be able to say you finished is objectively less satisfying than finishing it with a decade’s worth of extra life experience that allows one to have felt the loneliness the author writes about; to have felt the subconscious drive toward self-destruction despite oneself or the fear of finding meaninglessness at the end of a barefoot pilgrimage toward an idea of success. I do my best not to cater only to my moods when deciding what to read next, as I’ve found doing so is an effective way not to grow as a reader. Somehow, though, books like these regularly find me at my most sentimental and end up as lifelong favorites.

This could be romanticism getting in the way of the near-one-hundred-percent likely explanation that we look for the themes closest to us in the books we read, however, like in all things, I prefer the romantic. With that said, and 14 chapters of Moby Dick logged, another book has found me at the moment I need it. This time as I’m drawn toward questions regarding identity, authenticity, and what leads us to be people we are desperately not. See also a fixation on what may have drilled the psychic hole that men regularly seek to fill with power (and the cruelty often used as a tool to obtain and maintain that power); what real brotherhood entails and, on the other hand, how brotherhood, when based on superficial bonds, can end up looking a lot like mass hysteria; and a curiosity about the history of the American novel and its relationship with the masculine. This series of essays is meant to track my progress as a reader and a student as I go. If it's not for you, then it’s just as well for me. I’ll have a record of the time I spent looking for answers in a novel that’s already become a favorite of mine as well as a record of a hunt for a white whale of my own, which may become clearer to you as time goes on. Feel free to read along and freer to let me know when I’m wrong, confused, way off the mark, or when I take the easy way out, for example, in cases such as using exhausted metaphors about hunting for white whales.

The Beginning 

When Ishmael introduces himself, it’s with the put-on nonchalance of a kid who smokes his first cigarette after telling his friends how he totally smokes all the time, despite his hacking and retching with each puff. Ishmael wants us assured he can hold his own as a hardened sailor, that he doesn’t want the status of higher-ranking crew, nor that he’s one of the poseurs who go to sea as tourists. He passes the luxurious New Bedford inns because the cheap ones are better anyway. Eschewing comfort is a point of pride because all he really cares about is the excitement of “forbidden seas.” He makes all this clear in his gentrified language the way a Wisconsinite living in Echo Park might make it clear that they’re above drinking anywhere that’s not an authentically grimy dive. When he finally reaches The Crossed Harpoons, though, his enthusiasm wanes when faced with the reality of slumming it compared to the romantic idea of doing so.

Compare this now to the modern person and their tendency to posture as salted experts in any given field while essentially living as tourists. It’s not difficult to fool others (and especially ourselves) when we have information on demand, even if most of the information gleaned is the thinnest layer off the surface of the surface. Even though Ishmael’s façade drops––evident in his dramatization of the decrepit state of the inn and its tenants or when he details his neuroses about sharing a bed with the still unknown harpooner––he at least has the experience of his merchant voyages. The modern poseur, however, doesn’t need skills or expertise to back up their performed identity. A few hours’ worth of Googling provides one with everything they need to know to impress a date who might have a thing for screenwriters, surfers, or sommeliers. Even if the intention isn’t to impress, there is still the drive to be labeled, to be perceived as something, and that drive is especially visible today with all the means that exist to portray ourselves as things we’re not.

This isn’t to diagnose an epidemic of inauthenticity because it’s apparently always been a human quirk to overcompensate for our less socially desirable traits by going all in on something else; most often, something conventionally deemed cool, as coincidence would have it. To Ishmael, the life of a sailor seems more intriguing on paper than that of a schoolteacher, the same way we’re led to believe the life of a psychedelically enlightened nomad is more interesting than that of a middle manager with a trust fund. The difference here is that, in the latter case, the traveler has a handful of tourist destinations bookmarked on Instagram defeating the need for exploration. The flight from LAX to Lisbon will be smooth besides some turbulence, the fear of which is simply cushioned by prescription meds and a neck pillow. Upon landing, most of the locals speak English, but if not, there are always Google Translate and data roaming. For the modern poseur, the inclination is to perform for an audience, whereas if Ishmael is lying to anyone, it’s to himself. The danger and discomfort involved in his travels tell us there’s at least some truth in his act. The traveler is nonetheless liable to posture as he does, singing the merits of adventure for weeks to come until the novelty wears off and it’s back to doomscrolling and bottomless brunch.

I’ve been the modern man, and if I have to, sure, I’ll attest to champagne tasting better sitting next to the Seine, particularly as the sunset’s reflection spills out from under Le Pont-Neuf rendering grass greener and smiles contagious. I, however, have the self-awareness not to let moments like these form the structural integrity of my personality… but it would be so easy. Just as easy as it is for a writer to ensure he’s seen scribbling pensively in a leather journal at a coffee shop with a copy of Moby Dick set to the side. Of course, the writer wouldn’t admit to posturing unless accused or given time to reflect on why he’d like to be perceived this way. He might ask himself what he’s compensating for and what part of himself he’s escaping from. Is there a tribe to which he’d like to belong that welcomes the thoughtful (or those who at least appear to be)? Is every hammed-up expression of identity a cover-up for the subconscious desire to sit with the cool kids? Is this desire largely what makes up militaries? Police forces? Corporations? A world could be built by self-serving intentions, don’t you think?

It's safe to doubt Melville’s purpose here is to campaign against the phonies of the world––however, I don’t mind being wrong this time and running with it, even if I’m only motivated by a grudge against tensions caused by a collective desperation for belonging. This is to point out that most of us don’t realize where we’d even like to belong in the first place. We throw slices of mystery meat at the wall and build outward lives based on whatever sticks. We retreat further into ourselves, progressively relying on appearances provided by the niches we’re sold by algorithms that are oblivious to the ways they make us lonely. It will only get easier to purchase a sense of self than it is to reflect on who we actually are, which is usually a lot messier and harder to get along with than the neatly packaged, pre-made ideas we’ve made ourselves accustomed to.

Unfortunately, there isn’t a solution that doesn’t require geriatric tones of pretension or self-righteousness. My only suggestion would be to develop an overwhelming self-consciousness about everything you do to ensure you’re doing them for the right reasons, especially those that aren’t motivated by an image of an advertisement of an idea of who you’d like to be. Fall in love with the act of doing rather than the appearance of someone who does. Reading this book is a lot more fun than being seen with it, but I should remind you that I’m here writing about it with the hope to be read, to hopefully be seen as someone who knows what they’re talking about.

long warm spanish nights

David never planned to grow out of Hemingway dreams. Short sentences and a young man’s idea of the future as a long warm Spanish night. So it didn’t matter that he wasn’t noticed in that moment or that he may have been the melodramatic nightmare he suspected his parents believed him to be. He sat alone with an empty notebook at the lunch table. It was loud all around him and he hated them for how much noise they made, but he still wished somebody would come. It was the wishing that distracted him more than the noise. He thought of Rebecca who said she liked that he was shy. He ruminated on that for weeks, mistakenly trying to expound on the quality by withdrawing further and smiling even less. At lunch, he would look up and most often she wouldn’t be there. He imagined that when she finally would be, it might impress her if she saw him writing. There was also the superstition that she might appear if he stopped paying attention. After half a page of filler and scribble, he wrote:

“I couldn’t have been made for anything but this even if just the sensation of pencil in hand is like a pacifier for my baby soft soul. It’s how I fall in love with a perfect stranger whose every blank I fill in with the fairy dust and hot glue of my imagination. The rest of the work is done by the mole at the top of her left cheek and the tickle of her hair brushing up on my shoulder and her breath on my neck when she leans over to whisper a question.

I take this feeling home and think of all the words that make it mean something as I fall deeper and feel sicker for it and feel good for loving something so much it makes me feel sick because I don’t know anyone else who can say the same for themselves. It then occurs to me that maybe it’s not writing, reading, or love, but feeling, and these are all just different means to that one end, but what better means could a guy ask for? I don’t think I’d hear her voice the same way if it were football or calculus.”

He’d forgotten to look up by then. It seemed to have quieted around him. There was a dent in the callus on his middle finger he’d had since he was 5 and first learned to hold a pencil. He thought of Hemingway having the same callus and the same bone deep need to feel and to share the feeling. This and the breeze on his neck made the idea of warm Spanish nights and all the other places he hadn’t been, all the people he hadn’t met and things he hadn’t written, seem much realer. Like an animal walking from the womb, he turned the page and kept writing.

black and blue

The old man wakes up and once again refuses to forfeit to the reality of his battered knees and gnarled fingers and perpetual bloat. Yesterday he was young. Yesterday there was vanilla cupcake body spray on the hoodie of a girl at the movie theater who didn’t kiss him but gave him the first feeling of wanting to kiss someone. Then there were cheap beer and blueberry swishers, then later still Givenchy and Chanel and Black Spirits in New York City. Now it’s the smell of young fighters’ sweat and the pah pah pat of gloves on the bag.

The timer beeps and he shuffles in his slippers throughout the ring, throwing up mitts with a speed that betrays the pace of his shuffle. The young men respect him and his made-up-but-only-known-to-him theory for fighting. He would say things like ‘love boxing like you hate yourself’ or ‘don’t eat dinner tonight but do get your dick sucked.’ The boys eat it up with only semi skepticism. The girls don’t mind him calling them tough bitches, but they throw extra weight into the mitts, pushing him back a step, and on occasion will miss the mitts and clip his chin and he laughs and tells them to give him another as he crosses his arms behind his back and takes a heavy slug then another when he asks for it.

He wakes up in an empty bed and walks into the kitchen to find an old woman reading the news. Her hair is mostly white, but some black still creeps through like light rippling through a reef. Her eyes have never changed and she sits up straight drinking her coffee with an elegance he’ll never stop loving. Still though, he aches and remembers the senses of his youth and hers––its body, its ugly gorgeous fever, and the luxury of being alone, the thing that makes two people their own that disappears with each passing year of togetherness which leads to a bond that doesn’t require niceties and compliments to the point that those things feel like luxuries when they do occur. Togetherness that makes them one, that is beyond the senses.

He kisses her and makes a coffee and takes it down to the community pool. He eases in to the jacuzzi and thinks of his dad who’d died decades ago. The slow grace in the way a father moves. Ways that seemed innate in his dad when the old man was young, that he began to notice in himself a long time ago. Laying out in the jacuzzi splayed strategically so that his belly doesn’t fold but the morning sun falls on him still and his aching knees are soothed; the duck waddle flap of wet feet on warm concrete as he walks back to the condo sounding like summers long past.

A fighter new to the gym earns some time in the ring. He taps his gloves against each other and bares his mouthguard at his skeletal counterpart in the opposite corner. The old man stands at the ropes’ edge. The skeleton breathes slow and loosens his shoulders and throws his head around like he has water stuck in his ears. The bell sounds and the new guy smacks his gloves once more, sending tan ripples across his chest and arms. He flexes a bicep before they both touch gloves then swings a wide left hook, and the skeleton ducks. The skeleton steps back and dances around the new guy who swings and misses, swings and misses. Finally, the skeleton throws a jab that makes the new guy look like he has to sneeze, but he shakes it off and throws hook after uppercut after hook. The bell rings.

The old man tells the new guy to relax. He tells him that he’s flat-footed as a fucking platypus and tells the skeleton how beautiful his footwork is but to not hold back with his right hand. He’s depending on his jab more than he should; he has a beautiful right hand. The bell sounds again and the new guy gets up, winded and grunting. The skeleton lands another clean jab, slips another hook, countering with his own and knocking the new guy back. The new guy leans into him and practically lifts him to the corner where he hugs him against the ropes. The skeleton tries to get out, but the new guy finds an angle to dig into him with bitter and relentless kidney-shots until he takes a half-step back and puts the skeleton to his knees with a short vicious hook just below his ear. The old man says it’s a spar, goddammit! He tends to the skeleton with a splash of water and a loving slap to the face then takes his gloves off before sliding the kid out of the ring. He laces up his own gloves and steps toward the new guy. The new guy smiles thinking the old man is joking until he eats a sloppy right hand that opens his lip. He touches at it then takes another and another.

They watch TV together before falling asleep holding hands. It’s been this way for 15 years. Every moment the same and different all at once. Wine and homecooked meals and childless sex. They kiss goodnight I love you and fall asleep. They wake up and she says I love you again. And again he loves her. And again he thinks of what could have been and wonders why he could never shake the habit of thinking it as he lies in bed dreading having to use his pained hands to brush his teeth. Still, he does it to the tune of pop songs from twenty years ago that she plays from the other room.

The new guy pushes the old man away and puts a hand out as if to say stop. The old man comes forward and, as he cocks another punch, is stopped with a hook that puts him on the mat. Some fighters who’d been watching ringside step in and help him up, while others went for the new guy. The new guy leaves the ring and snatches up his bag before he’s cursed out the door. The old man stands up and limps to the restroom. He splashes water on his face and looks in the mirror at his swelling eye. He squints and feels the familiar ache. The fighters walk him to his car without a word. The old woman asks him what he’s doing home early and then, oh my god what happened to you? He tells her that he keeps getting older, but they stay the same age. She gives him a kiss over his eyelid and asks him if he wants to walk the dog with her. He says: gladly.

on creativity

There’s a pleasant feeling that comes from the back of your neck that makes its way into your head and you feel it in your chest a little bit too. It’s like a smile from the inside. It makes you want to make something. You want to bottle it and have some ready for all the time but unfortunately you can’t and you only feel it some of the time on its own terms. Sometimes you go a long time without it and you worry it’ll never come back.  

It comes out more in the winter when its grey outside. In a rural town that smells like rotting wood or a liquor store in the suburbs at two in the morning. When you see yourself buzzed in the bathroom mirror and like the way you look and walk out with more attitude than when you walked in.

Drinking alone gives some semblance of it. Love or a semblance of love does too. If you can ignore that it’s a costume version of the feeling, then you might be able to make something out of it. But it doesn’t compare to times like now, watching a Western on a Saturday morning with a cup of coffee and nothing else to do.

pink skies

We landed on Saturday and left the airport into biting November wind. We ate pizza on the sidewalk and shared cigarettes. We ran a shower and ended up on the couch wearing towels while we waited for it to get hot. I grabbed her hand and pulled her to my lap and we kissed. Warm hands in the cold room gracing skin feeling like hours. Not wanting to get in the shower now because that would mean one thing is ending for the next. Getting in the shower because the next thing can only be better than the last. We laid in bed drunk and fell asleep watching one of her bedtime movies—one of the ones she’s seen so many times it helps her fall asleep. 

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We rented a car for a drive into the mountains. I wouldn’t shut up about how beautiful Colorado is compared to California while she tried to sleep away another hangover. Everything wider, cleaner, greener, fresher. Holding hands as we drove deeper into the snow making note of backwoods diners and a Bigfoot museum we should stop by on the way down.

She brightened up when we got to the trailhead. Aspens reached high with yellow leaves shimmering like wind chimes. Silent except for the frozen creek trickling by. A blue bird flew over us and landed in a tree. She followed it to take a picture. Each step she took closer, the bird hopped a branch higher as if taunting her. I watched, taking it in, laughing at her and the bird, and nothing was bad and nothing could be perfect but it felt like it was.

I felt it walking through the forest where there were fresh paw prints in the snow that must have been a mountain lion’s. Thinking about how I’d undoubtedly snap a mountain lion’s neck if she needed me to. Feeling foolishly confident I wouldn’t hesitate. No mountain lions though. We made out in the woods like teenagers before building an inordinately busty snowwoman, then we hiked back to the car to go for a drive.

I surprised her with a detour through Red Rocks as the sun went down. The park was closed but we saw the oranges, the purples, the pinks; bursts of godlight staining sunburned stone before it went dark. In another bar in the next town over, we warmed up sitting next to a fire. I told her the next stop would be coffee and dessert. She said, “You have really good ideas.”

Coffee and dessert and laughing, smiling, joking. Wanting her only to associate me with good things. We watched a Christmas movie back at the room and drank Colorado whiskey. We fell asleep with the blinds up while the city tenderly peeked through.

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Last day. We slept in and ordered room service before checking out. I looked around the room one last time in case it would end up a memory laid among a few thousand scattered or discarded others.

We left the hotel looking for somewhere to get a tattoo. She wasn’t sure what she wanted or where it would go. She decided at the last minute to get a horseshoe on her ankle against her better judgement. A silhouette in a fighting stance now sits on my leg above the words “Don’t Try.” She said it felt like it was meant to be.

She didn’t want to go home when we got to California, so we had dinner by the airport. Then there was coffee and dessert followed by another night spent together. Another day. Another night. Then a few thousand more.